Changing Lives by Ingrid Hoffmeister
Las Patronas: A Tradition Of Giving
August 7 will mark the 58th year of Las Patronas’ Annual
Jewel Ball, this year with the theme Rhapsody in White. The Las
Patronas chairs have been busy making preparations to ensure that,
as usual, the evening is something memorable and lucrative. Throughout
its rich history, the La Jolla-based philanthropic organization
has donated more than $9 million to nearly 1,000 charitable institutions
in San Diego. The Jewel Ball represents the most venerable of philanthropic
galas, and last year the La Jolla Beach and Tennis Club was the
recipient of their first annual Spirit of Giving award. The award
represents the decades of long support and partnership between
Las Patronas and the club.
Fifty women volunteers from the La Jolla
area help create and produce the annual Jewel Ball, which every
year has a new theme, elaborate
set, and décor to thrill 850 guests. These same women
are accustomed to wearing the many hats that support the Las
Patronas
organization. They have trained grant teams that make on-site
visits to organizations requesting funds, while assessing the
needs and
impact the grants will have on the San Diego community. Their
grants are diverse and cover many critical areas of need.
At
their 2003 annual beneficiary luncheon they successfully captured
the essence and spirit of giving by presenting seven major
grants to the Athenaeum Music and Arts Library, Breast Care Unit
of
the UCSD Cancer Center, Children’s Hospital and Health
Center, The George G. Glenner Alzheimer’s Family Center,
Saint Clare’s
Home, Inc., Scripps Institution of Oceanography, and UCSD Regional
Burn Center. Each of these major beneficiaries as well as 40
other organizations benefited from the $621,863 raised by the
2003 Jewel
Ball and year-long fundraising efforts.
Las Patronas has a wonderful
community of over 250 retired (lifelong members) known as
advisory members who give ongoing
financial
and motivational support. Other important elements are the
corporate, business, and individual donors who ensure that
Las Patronas
continues
to be fruitful and successful.
A Big Gift For Small Patients
One of the beneficiaries of the 2003 grant was San Diego’s
Children’s Hospital and Health Center Neonatal Intensive
Care Unit (NICU) , a medical womb large enough to support and
nurture 32 babies. With all its intricate high technology medical
equipment,
the NICU may not mirror the soft, mothering womb of our imagining,
but it does provide a powerful counterpart. One element critical
to an infant’s survival is the Ohmeda Giraffe Omnibed (a
unit that combines an incubator and warming bed). This surrogate
womb provides a stable environment for a premature baby to be
cared for with as little handling as possible. The NICU has two
of these
beds, the second recently purchased with funds from the Las Patronas
grant. Curled inside one is a four-week-old, one-and-a-half-pound
baby boy named Jorge.
After Jorge’s premature birth at a
hospital in National City, the doctor met with his parents
to offer them two difficult options.
The first, due to the high level of complications, was to allow
Jorge to die. The other was to transfer him to the NICU knowing
the high risk and the possibility of him dying. The parents
chose the latter, wanting to give their son any chance possible.
During
those fearful and anxiety-filled days they watched as little
Jorge struggled for his life. At home were his two young sisters
and
a mother who felt helpless and sad. She decided, as she couldn’t
talk to him directly, she would write him a letter telling
him he is a very strong boy and she is here to help him with
his
struggles. She thanks God and the doctors for their love and
support and is
very hopeful he will pull through.
To help me understand more
about the NICU is Jennifer McFadden, R.N.C., M.S., C.N.S.,
a 20-year clinical nurse specialist who
says, “When
I started my career in 1985, babies like Jorge, delivered
at 24 weeks (four months early) died because we couldn’t
provide the right environment to keep them alive.” As
I peer more intensely into the Omnibed, Jorge’s tiny
head, smaller than my fist, is covered in a light blue knitted
cap and his tender
body appears not quite ready to hatch. Jorge, who has fluid
lines and breathing tubes attached to his nose and limbs,
rests snugly
inside his small warm cocoon.
Originally, two separate units
provided the care now supplied by the one Omnibed. The separate
units necessitated the transference
of the baby from one unit to the other to receive treatment. “When
we admit a baby there is a lot to do during the first few
days. It is a crucial time as a premature baby needs to be
handled as
little as possible and needs a stabile environment,” McFadden
carefully explains. A consistently warm and humid atmosphere
that emulates the womb is essential, along with fluid lines
and breathing
tubes to support life. One of the dangers encountered during
movement is possible bleeding in the brain. Blood vessels
in the baby’s
head are fragile and the changes in body fluids and oxygen
levels can cause bleeding in the brain.
We stroll outside
of the NICU to sit on a garden bench in a small artistically
decorated children’s garden. McFadden, herself
a mother of two, resumes our conversation in warm, confident
tones of experience. “If a baby is delivered extremely
premature and needs a higher level of care, we have three
neonatal intensive
care sites the baby can be sent to. Our clinic treats those
with the highest level of need. We also treat the most unusual
cases
from babies with abnormalities to genetic syndromes. I tell
my nurses, ‘If you’ve never seen it before, you’ll
see it here and you’ll see it twice.’ ”
After
20 years of working in a life-death environment, I ask McFadden
how she deals with such emotional intensity.
She stops
and thinks
about my question saying, “I’ve always had a
faith that allowed me to accept that if a baby didn’t
survive it wasn’t the fault of the team — it
was God’s plan.”
As I listen to McFadden, I think of baby Jorge lying in his
Omnibed and feel convinced that God has many helpers, including
McFadden
and Las Patronas.
For more information on Las Patronas or
the 2004 Jewel Ball, call 858/527-1686. |
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