Bill Goldberg
Family Values Are Still King Of The Ring

Without meeting former NFL linebacker and World Wrestling Entertainment wrestler Bill Goldberg, you could easily mistake him for just a piece of Herculean, best-cut prime beef. Coat the steak with a dressing of his signature wrestling moves with names like the gorilla press powerslam and the pumphandle drop, and the plate served up resembles no more than a stereotypical wrestling dish.

But to slice off just a tiny piece of this exterior is the equivalent of rubbing a magic genie lamp and - presto - a charismatic, intelligent, articulate, and very caring human being appears. Dressed in a leather jacket and goggle-type sunglasses, 39-year-old Goldberg parks his shiny metallic blue Harley outside The Belly Up in Solana Beach, owned by his older brother, Steve, who is also owner of Pacific Coast Grill. As his six-foot-four power-packed frame slides into a chair, he says, "I've reinvented myself numerous times as a way to figure out my life after football slammed shut the door."

The once Atlantic Falcons defensive lineman became the first player cut by the Carolina Panthers after a torn abdominal muscle ended his dream career in 1995. He later sued the Panthers for misdiagnosing his abdominal injury and for loss of earnings. "It's amazing - I retired from football to lift 300 pounds in the wrestling ring." When asked how that is possible considering his injury, he says, "Wrestling is a controlled sport - football is not. In football you never know what is going to happen."

There are signs that the wound still weeps. "Even though I've had an amazingly successful career in wrestling and the movies, I've always loved football best," says Goldberg. "After I got hurt it was a very depressing time because I really didn't plan on doing anything else and I was one of those guys who thought wrestling appalling, and so did my family."

Goldberg, the youngest of four, grew up in the Midwest. His father, an accomplished obstetrician/gynecologist, was a graduate of Harvard and Johns Hopkins, and his mother, a concert violinist. "My parents divorced when I was 12, but they gave us everything and molded some pretty good kids. I think growing up in the Midwest had a lot to do with it. We lived in Tulsa, Oklahoma, which is a simple place where family values were seriously enforced - they are not nearly as prevalent these days and that's very unfortunate."

Last April, Goldberg, married stunt-double Wanda Feraton, whom he met while filming Santa's Slay, a comedy/horror film. They expect their first child, a boy, this summer. "I'd like to see children have the same values I had as a kid. I want to see an eight-year-old open the door for a pregnant woman or a six-year-old say please and thank you. In fact, I'd like to write a kids' book on manners, show the antithesis of the tough guy. Kids are our future and if it takes being the man I am for people to listen, so be it."

"The man I am" emerged after Goldberg met World Championship Wrestling (WCW) employees Sting and Lex Luger in a gym. Motivated by money and with a body already primed for the ring, he attended a professional WCW wrestling school called the Power Plant. His shaved head, goatee, and utilitarian black trunks became his trademark. "I am proud to have kept my real name and I always tried to remain as real as possible. I never wanted to become a 'character' but rather strived to be a role model for kids. I believe I have a responsibility to set a good example."

Solana Beach boutique owner Sean Safarlou experienced first hand Goldberg's kid philosophy. "That guy is not a publicity stunt," says Safarlou, describing his encounter with Goldberg. "He came into my shop with his wife and we started chatting. I told him my son Emmanuel wanted to be a football player but wasn't doing well at school. Goldberg called my son on the phone and spoke to him directly - he talked to my son and that really meant a lot."

Goldberg's number one advice is to make sure kids stay in school and get a solid education, so if something ever happens while they're chasing their dream they have something to fall back on. "That's a very important thing," he confesses. "I've been lucky but not everybody gets a second chance."

Goldberg's second chance culminated into him winning the United States World Heavyweight Championship in April 1998. Three months later in Atlanta he took the world title from Hulk Hogan. "It was amazing to hear a crowd of 40,000 chanting 'Goldberg,' and I'd say half of them were friends of mine. Atlanta is where I went to school and played pro football."

After the match, Hogan fans forced their way into the ring to attack Goldberg (all scripted) followed by Goldberg's old football mates from the Atlanta Falcons coming to the rescue (also scripted). "I had so wanted to be like those football guys, so when I saw them in the ring wanting to be like me, there was a kind of poetic justice. In fact, it was the highlight of my wrestling career."

In 1999, as wrestling world champion, he found himself on the front cover of USA Today. "There was a cartoon taking Michael Jordan's picture off the wall and putting up mine," he says. "It was a huge honor." Male or female, Goldberg is a man who catches your eye, a boon that has served him well. Since 1998, he has appeared in numerous television shows including The Love Boat and Desperate Housewives. Last year, he appeared in three movies, The Longest Yard with Adam Sandler, Burt Reynolds, and Chris Rock; The Kid & I with Tom Arnold; and Santa's Slay with Fran Drescher.

This past summer, Goldberg hosted a 30-minute program for Spike TV on The History Channel. The show, Automaniac, gave him a platform to talk about his personal passion - the history of automobiles and motorcycles. Goldberg is a private collector with 20 American muscle cars, a 1967 Jaguar, and five motorcycles. His celebrity and interest in cars has made him a popular choice for guest appearances on the U.S. auto show circuit including the Auto Award Show, which took place in Las Vegas last April.

With the birth of his baby imminent, Goldberg wants to apply the work breaks. "I want to spend more time at home and be around for the baby's birth. Last weekend I was in Portland on Saturday, Detroit Sunday, and home Sunday night and I like that," he says. The ideal five-day home stay with wife, baby, four dogs, and two cats isn't going to last, though. This July, in the role originally played by Steven Seagal, Goldberg starts filming Half Past Dead 2.

With 285 pounds of solid muscle to maintain, William Scott (Bill) Goldberg is able to follow a hard workout schedule that also includes being a spokesperson for animal rights and a member of Make-A-Wish Foundation. All this goes to show that a piece of best prime beef is never what it seems.
- Ingrid Hoffmeister, photography by Vincent Knakal

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The easiest way to get to the heart of a town's greatness is to get inside knowledge from the people who contribute to its pulse. We asked a handful of notable Del Martians what they like best about the Village by the Sea, and followed their lead.

David Ellenstein, Artistic Director Of
North Coast Repertory Theatre
(858/481-2155)
Artistic director David Ellenstein heads into his fourth season at North Coast Repertory Theatre. "It is our 25th anniversary season and with our plans in process for a new theatre at the site named Cedros Crossing, we are pumped up and excited," says Ellenstein. The new theatre site spans across both sides of the Solana Beach Train Station on Cedros Avenue and will include a theatre school with classrooms, rehearsal space, and a set shop.
Where do you love to shop for your wife? On special occasions like her birthday or Mother's Day, I go to the Aniata Cheese shop. My wife, Denise, particularly adores good cheese and Aniata's has an amazing selection. She especially enjoys their six-year-old Gouda. When the kids and I bring her a cheese plate for breakfast in bed, she loves it.

Bob Stonebrook, Owner Of Aniata Cheese Shop (858/847-9616)
Stonebrook grew up in rural Ohio working on his family's farm, and then lived in Europe for several years where he married his Polish wife, Martyna, before moving to San Diego in 2001. "One of the things we immediately missed was good artisan cheese," he explains. "We had lived in The Hague and our weekends always consisted of a trip to the cheese shop. Back in San Diego, we complained for a while and then decided to try to do something about it - our little shop in Flower Hill. Here, we strive to contribute to the community through our passion for cheese."
Where would you take your wife for an evening out? We both really enjoy the wine flights at Arterra Restaurant and, of course, the food is terrific.

Brian Donegan, Wine Director Of Arterra Restaurant (858/369-6032)
Donegan developed his great passion for wine while working as a server at A.R. Valentien restaurant at The Lodge at Torrey Pines. "I decided to start on the road towards becoming a sommelier and passed the first level exam for the Court of Master Sommeliers." Donegan spent some time in Sydney, Australia and then returned to his native New York where he worked for Zachy's Wine & Spirits. "I have been in charge of the wine program at Arterra for the past year. It is the best restaurant I have worked at - from the chefs, my fellow managers, to the servers and the rest of the support staff here, everyone has been committed to making Arterra the best it can possibly be."
Where do you buy wine? I go to Barons Marketplace in Del Mar to see Eli the owner because he has a great palate and a fantastic selection of wines. He is also one of the most loving people I know."

Eli Shemirani, Owner Of Barons Marketplace (858/481-2323)
With 27 years experience in the family business including eight in Del Mar, Eli Shemirani has had plenty of opportunity to engage in his passion for food and wine. The concept for Barons Marketplace evolved from the consumers' need to purchase both food and wine of the highest quality. "Every week we add new food items and wine, both selected by a tasting committee," says Shemirani. "Every Saturday from 2-5pm we invite customers to a wine tasting so we can evaluate what customers like and want."
Where did you have a good customer experience? I'd choose Del Mar Floral & Gifts because the owner, Anne Engert, has been amazing. I've been married a long time and our wedding anniversary fell during my wife's visit to her family in Washington. She had to stay some extra days and on very short notice Anne was able to surprise my wife with some specific flowers that made her very happy."

Anne Engert, Owner Of Del Mar Floral & Gifts (858/755-0303)
In 1989, as an exchange student from Norway, Engert came to live with a family from Cardiff. Love blossomed between Anne and their youngest son, and the couple married in 1992. The Del Mar Floral shop, once owned by Engert's mother-in-law, generated opportunity for Engert to learn the business. Six years ago, she purchased the business and has enjoyed working with the community ever since. Designing and arranging flowers for weddings and other special occasions has taken her to a variety of local venues.
Do you have a favorite venue? Without a doubt I'd have to say L'Auberge Del Mar Resort and Spa. I have stayed and worked there on numerous occasions. It is truly a wonderful hotel for any kind of occasion. The food, views, and facilities are spectacular and it is only a short walk to the ocean.

Michael J. Slosser, General Manager, L'Auberge Del Mar Resort And Spa (858/793-6401)
Slosser is a graduate of Michigan State University, School of Business and Hospitality Management. "My goal as a hard-working 13-year-old kid, raised by his mother, was to educate myself and within my working life run the finest hotels in the world. This was accomplished by age 35, when I was appointed vice president of hotel operations on the island of Lanai, Hawaii." Since then he joined Destination Hotels & Resorts with the desire to return to San Diego on a permanent basis. "My beautiful wife, Sahar, and I wanted to raise our 9-year old son in San Diego and become part of the greater Del Mar community by being involved leaders and strong advocates for developing a better community."
Do you have a favorite recreational pastime? Our family belongs to Pacific Athletic Club. It is an extremely professionally-run, high-quality facility that is great for the family. My son loves to play tennis and Tom Shea, the tennis director, is wonderful for both him and me as I am also a tennis club member and on the tennis ladder.

Tom Shea, Tennis Director At Pacific Athletic Club (858/509-9933)
Shea was born in Hong Kong. His talents as a college tennis player took him on the tennis circuit and later to teaching. Since 1992, he has worked for the Pacific Athletic Club, opening their facilities in the Bay Area and in Carmel Valley in 2002. "I still teach and run their tennis program, including a kids program for ages four to high school. It is a fantastic job and lots of fun. People here are very friendly and it is very rewarding watching people having fun and enhancing their game."
If you want some fun, where do you hang out? I like to go to Caf? Del Mar. It's been around for a long time and is a local restaurant, not a tourist place. When you go, you always bump into lots of people you know. It's a great place to meet friends, the food is good, and Steve the owner has been around forever. He redid the bar and it's the perfect hangout.

Steve Kranhold, Owner Of Cafe Del Mar
(858/481-1133)
Steve Kranhold, known to his friends as Kranie, has lived in Del Mar his entire life except for a couple of side trips. He was less than 16 when he began his restaurant career in the early '70s, as the clean up kid at El Pescador Fish Market, now the location of En Fuego on Camino Del Mar. "I graduated from clean up to cutting fish, making sandwiches, to opening their bar in the late '70s." In the early '80s, he formed a partnership with the guys from the Fish Market on Via de la Valle and that same year he opened Cafe Del Mar.
What keeps you in Del Mar? I'm here because of the beach and ocean. I love everything about it - surfing, fishing, volleyball. Whatever I do and whatever I need, I pick up from Rusty Surfboards Del Mar. Zak Groban, a Del Mar lifeguard helps me out with boards, shirts, or shorts. The shop has everything to keep me happy.

Zak Groban, Owner/Partner Of Rusty Surfboards (858/259-3200)
Twenty-six-year-old Zak Groban took over as owner/partner of Rusty Surfboards Del Mar on January 1. A local lad born and raised on the Del Mar beach, he worked at the store throughout high school and college. "When Rick [the previous owner] moved full-time to New Zealand, I jumped at the opportunity to partner with Rusty Preisendorfer. This was the store where every kid in Del Mar hung out or wanted to work. It was a dream come true." Like many kids in Del Mar, Groban completed the Del Mar Junior Lifeguard Program and today he is still a lifeguard, something he thoroughly enjoys.
Where would you send a teen who loves the outdoors? Most definitely I'd recommend the Del Mar Junior Lifeguard Program. Turtle Rudolph's program, called Turtle Guard, is truly amazing. It is a well-run, well-designed department and everyone involved feels good at the end of the day. You can't get much better than that.

Turtle Rudolph Of Turtle Guard - Del Mar Junior Lifeguard Program (760/944-1657)
Turtle has been a lifeguard for 15 years, a paddleboard race competitor for the past ten years, and the coordinator of the Junior Guard Program for 11. "Running a program for 900 kids each year is fun and keeps me on my toes. Children's lives have become more complicated and stressful so I'm happy to offer a fun, educational, and physically-active program that helps promote beach and ocean safety along with teamwork, sportsmanship, and self confidence."
- Ingrid Hoffmeister,
photography by Vincent Knakal
 
 
 

  
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